Forgive me for I have sinned or something
Posted: October 2, 2016 Filed under: LOVE, Self improvement | Tags: Bill Wyman - Je Suis un Rock Star - '81, daughter guilt, dementia, family obligations, la di da, lurking addiction, single mother delusions, single mother guilt, single mother internet addict, social media, true confessions Leave a commentI’m not Catholic but I think I need to ‘fess up about my online habits. I have an addiction to Instagram, I get work from Facebook connections and I read crap about idiot politicians on Twitter. My addiction to lurking is not completely out of control, I know that Google + is pointless, and the only time I use LinkedIn is when my mother’s dementia flares up and I’m talking on the phone with her for the third or fourth time in one day and listening to stories she has already told me 100 times. So I connect with people on LinkedIn in order to emotionally disconnect from the feeling that the mother I knew has gone forever. My siblings and I are mourning her loss before she has left us and social media helps me feel somehow less powerless.
I’m the youngest of four children and my mum dedicated her life to us so I’m slowly losing my biggest fan. I know that the Internet can’t fill the void but some nights watching tragic bands from the 80s on YouTube helps.
Bill Wyman – Je Suis un Rock Star – ’81
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We’ve got to find a way
Posted: July 15, 2016 Filed under: LOVE | Tags: belief, culture, faith, France, hate, love, Marvin Gaye-What's Going On (1971), Nice, peace, politics of fear, prayers, sorrow, terror, terrorism 1 CommentMy heart weeps for the children of Syria, Orlando, Baghdad and Nice, I feel powerless to change the hatred and fear gripping parts of our world. What the hell can we do?
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I don’t mean to be rude but…..
Posted: June 26, 2016 Filed under: LOVE, MARRIAGE, Single Motherhood | Tags: blessed, escapism, grateful, I've heard it all before, lucky, Madonna - Sorry, Norway, single mother holiday, single mother sanity, single mothers chasing vikings, single mummies, solo parenting, travel 3 CommentsWhen married people say,
“My husband/spouse/ball and chain is away for a weekend, a week or three months, so I’m a single parent,” I grit my teeth.
No, you’re not. Your partner, though absent, is still contributing financially and emotionally to the other partner’s well being and that of the children. and when the absent partner returns they often do things that compensate for their absence. Single parenting with no other parent helping financially, mentally and emotionally on a day to day basis is not how children should be raised. It’s too much stress on one person.
Stress makes us humans crazy and sick, so my oldest childhood friend and I, who is also a single mum, have escaped. By the time you read this we will be somewhere in Norway searching the fjords for strapping vikings. Our dear friend bought us air tickets so we could attend his wedding in Oslo. I won the lottery when it comes to the wealth of my friendships. Skal!
Motherhood is not what you gave up to have your kids, but what you gained from having them
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I miss my dad
Posted: May 29, 2016 Filed under: LOVE, Parenting | Tags: daddy's girl, David Bowie - Everyone Says Hi, father figures, fatherhood, fathers and daughters, grandpas, great dads, I love my dad, love, parenting, single mother struggles, single mothers who had great dads Leave a commentThis week marks 14 years since I lost my dad (down the back of the couch, it was a big lounge suite). My dad was hard-working, larger-than-life, full of energy and a bit of a nut with a great sense of humour. I miss him every day.
I’m now at the age where too regularly my friends are losing their dads. Great dads who worked hard and weren’t around that much when we were young because they had to feed us and pay the bills and blokes of that generation were taught to get on with it and not complain. Lovely men who then became gorgeous grandpas who made up for the time they’d missed with their kids by sharing their attention and dad jokes with our kids. Now they’re old and frail and leaving us. As a single mum I could really do with my dad around some days, but life goes on with him in our hearts.
Farewell grand dads and grandpas. We miss you so.
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Dear potential new husband
Posted: May 15, 2016 Filed under: LOVE, Single Motherhood | Tags: Advice for single mothers, catch of the day, husband hunting, love, love and marriage, match making, romance, single mother budget constraints, single mother delusions, single mother joys, single mothers looking for lasting love, Something Stupid - Frank Sinatra Leave a commentI know I’m a catch, and I’d really like to go on an exciting lunch date with you to the hot hip new bar you’re proposing and I’m very keen to pay for your brilliant plan to boost my Instagram account with 10,000 new followers but,
My legs are hairy
The cat has to go to the vet
My pouting tween has left her school uniform on the bus
The Valium isn’t working
I need a long nap
And
Unless you organise a babysitter, come and pick me up and pay for everything our blooming romance is not going to happen
Please contact me at irresistiblematch.com so you can take a ticket and join the queue of eligible males pining for me
Thank you hot stuff
Love
Lou
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Dig If You Will The Picture
Posted: April 23, 2016 Filed under: LOVE, Self improvement, SONGS | Tags: died too young, genius artists, gratitude, joy, love, Music, musical heroes, PRINCE, Prince Rogers Nelson, single mother sanity, Sometimes It Snows In April, songs of my youth, talent 2 CommentsHow do we live in a world without Prince, David Bowie, Alan Rickman, Victoria Wood and Merle Haggard? Age shall not weary them, but 2016 has been a cruel year, robbing the world of my favourite artists.
The genius artist known as Prince brought my teen years alive with his sexy funk groove.
“All good things that say, never last. And love, it isn’t love until it’s passed.”
Please Stevie Wonder, stay healthy and strong.
Thank you Prince Rogers Nelson, your music, generosity of spirit and philanthropy will live forever
Prince
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I found love on the internet
Posted: March 12, 2016 Filed under: LOVE, MARRIAGE, Single Motherhood | Tags: Alison Krauss - When You Say Nothing At All, do single mothers have loose morals?, finding love online, internet dating convert, Please say nothing at all, single mother heartache, single motherhood inspiration, single mothers looking for love, WTF Leave a commentMarch is proving to be the month of love, I’ve been inundated with offers. I was initially reluctant to try online dating, but after reading this email, I’m not going to be shy about signing up to meet lonely singles in other countries.
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Posted: February 28, 2016 Filed under: LOVE, Single Motherhood | Tags: A Star is Born - Evergreen, desperate single mothers, fairy tales for single mothers, love will grow, matchmaking emails, online love, single mother dating, spam emails, true love, WTF Leave a commentThe upside of middle of the night insomnia is the wonderful messages I get to read online. More hot stuff flows into my computer at 3am than during the day.
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You put a spell on me
Posted: February 14, 2016 Filed under: LOVE | Tags: allergy to happy couples, happy coupleland, immortal beloved, Living Colour - Love Rears Its Ugly Head, love, love attacks your brain, love makes the world go round, my mind is gone, single mother joys, single mother struggles, Valentine's Day, William Shakespeare quotes Leave a commentHappy Valentine’s Day to all the single mothers and fathers, hope you get lucky today with chocolate kisses and your children wake up smelling like roses. Remember it’s better to be single than fall for a dating scam online. As that well-known expert on internet dating Shakespeare said,
Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks,
But bears it out even to the edge of doom
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Kiss A Ginger Day
Posted: January 12, 2016 Filed under: LOVE, Thought For the Day | Tags: CAROL BURNETT, carrot tops, Days of the year, Ed Sheeran - Photograph, famous redheads, flame red hair, January 12 celebrations, Kiss A Ginger Day, Lucille Ball, Nicole Kidman Australian princess, orange crayons, red hair, redheads, sending love to redheads 2 CommentsIn opposition to “Kick a Ginger Day” Derek Forgie created “Kiss A Ginger Day,” celebrated on the 12th of January every year.
Famous ginger tops include Carol Burnett, Vincent Van Gogh, Susan Sarandon, Tim Minchin, Ginger Spice, Australian princess Our Knickers, Shirley Maclaine, Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart, Lucille Ball, Prince Harry and Ed Sheeran whose music is a bit cheesy but I still like him.
Celebrate Kiss a Ginger Day by smooching your favourite redhead, and mark January 12 on your calendar because it is far better to spread love than hate. I’ve always loved the orange crayons.
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